We will soon be launching a reality show called Naked Attraction where people date completely naked and choose a partner based on their body image. Why do you think this format is so successful?
First and foremost, it is its unique and controversial approach that attracts viewers with its boldness and openness. People are naturally curious and want to see what is beyond ordinary dating. Further, the show appeals to basic human instincts and attraction, which can be fascinating for viewers as well as participants. Last but not least, in my opinion, the show is about courage. And we enjoy watching the courage of others.
It definitely takes courage. Why can this form of dating be better than, say, internet dating?
I think there are many bonuses to this type of dating. First, it is definitely a safe environment for this show as the participants can feel protected and supervised by a professional team. This dating show is also exceptional in that it offers people an immediate and very honest approach to physical attraction, which can save time and overcome some of the insecurities associated with online dating. The anonymity avoids the unnecessary disappointment of rejection. And also, for example, a phenomenon that is now being addressed quite a lot in society, the so-called catfishing - when someone who has a fake profile writes to you.
However, experts warn that chemistry is overrated. How successful can you be when you meet someone based on instincts? Based on what you see without knowing the other person’s character traits?
It is true that dating based on pure physical attraction can be successful in the short term, but a long-term relationship usually requires a deeper connection based on character traits, values and shared interests. However, these things are not mutually exclusive. In the routine dating of today, which is more and more online, we also choose a counterpart based on appearance.
Does such a relationship have a chance of lasting? Do we know how many couples have actually stayed together after meeting on a British show?
A quick connection based on physical attraction can be fun and exciting, but long-term success really depends on compatibility beyond physical appearance. Statistically, many couples from reality shows such as Love Island, The Bachelor, Naked Attraction and Love is Blind don’t stay together long-term because their relationship lacks a solid foundation. But some make it work and are still together. Even the very first couple who met in the first episode of Naked Attraction in the UK turned their introduction into a long-term relationship.
Nudity and revealing personal intimacy in public in front of complete strangers is too much for most people. What motivates performers to try such a dating show?
Definitely the opportunity to overcome personal boundaries, increase self-esteem, be authentic, and accept their body. But participants are also aware of the opportunity to make new connections with people outside of filming. What I like about Naked Attraction is that we can try something completely new and daring, but safely, under the supervision of experts.
Does one have to be mentally tough for this kind of encounter? Are there people who, for example, change their minds during a shoot because they can’t handle the pressure on their being honest?
Yes, mental resilience is important because participants face not only exposure to others but also potential criticism and public opinion. Not everyone is able to handle this pressure and for some, participation can be very stressful. The production of the show has this in mind. The support of a psychologist is therefore in place from the start of the show. I, as the supporting psychologist, am already present during the casting of the show. The production team and I will act as psychological support both during filming and after the show has aired. If the participants need more support, they also have the option of using several of my fellow psychologists and psychotherapists to help them cope with the consequences of public performance and reactions from those around them.
Naked Attraction; Source: idnes.czWhat were the most common reasons for participants to contact psychologists in Britain? What do you expect to discuss with them?
From the UK, we have information that the psychologist has already had an input during the casting process where some participants were advised not to proceed. During and after the show, the most common topics discussed were social media, looking at their bodies, and physical and mental well-being with implications for their environment (for example, work, family, and relationships in general). The psychologist was fully engaged throughout the preparation, during and after the show.
What happens if a person changes their mind about their nudity during filming and fails to undress for the cameras?
The participant usually has the option to withdraw without any penalty. The production team should respect the participant’s decision and ensure that they feel safe. We certainly won’t force anyone to do anything they don’t want to do. Everyone has the right to make their own choices at a certain moment. However, it is important to mention that to avoid this, the participants go through a thorough casting process, and for this reason, I am present as a psychologist.
Does a person applying for a dating show have to have a perfect figure?
Absolutely not. The show tries to include people of all shapes and sizes to represent a diversity of body types and contribute to a positive body image. That is the beauty of it. And we actually get information throughout the show about why it is actually okay if you don’t look perfect.
Women are more cautious in this regard, fearing harassment or, conversely, body shaming. Is it more challenging for them to participate in a dating show like this?
Body shaming is generally more of a concern for women than for men. That is why women may be more worried. The production team needs to provide a safe and supportive environment for all participants. Therefore, one of the principles of this format is the positive attitude of the host.
How specifically will this be manifested in the show?
The host points out that the differences and imperfections in our bodies are natural, whether they are related to body disproportions, scars, birthmarks, or even body hair. He encourages participants that there is never anything to be ashamed of and it is always the body that tells the unique story of the individual. These supportive sentences are sometimes supplemented with facts. An example might be why each of our breasts looks different.
So even people with imperfect bodies and physical differences have a chance to pass casting and succeed in dating?
Sure. The show wants to point out that imperfection can be to our advantage. It tries to show the diversity and beauty of all body types. The casting process should be inclusive and support the courage of the people who apply.
Yet, the dating show has faced criticism. Opponents accuse it of being superficial and negatively affecting teens, for example. Do you think it can distort people’s view of human sexuality, like porn?
It all depends very much on your point of view. Critics may be right that the show can reinforce a superficial view of dating, but it can also be an opportunity for a more open and honest discussion about physical attraction and sexuality. It can show that everyone likes something different. The key is that viewers, especially teens, are led to understand that relationships require more than physical attraction and that deeper connections are important.
I think nudity is often seen as something sexual or even vulgar, which is why we are often ashamed or even afraid of it. But it is something natural that is part of all of us, and it is great that the show demonstrates that we can give nudity a safe space and embrace it differently. Overall, the show tries to indicate that nudity is ok, that the naked body is beautiful despite being imperfect, that we are all looking for something different, and that we don’t have to look at the naked body as just a tool for sexual gratification, like in the porn you mentioned, but as part of our personality. And without a filter.
Source: idnes.cz
